Be Near Oh God

A lie is a lie is a lie is a lie. And just the same: a truth is a truth is a truth is a... well, you get the picture.  I am finding more and more how important scripture is to memorize and store in your heart.  Not only because actual scripture tells us to do so (Psalm 119:11), but because it draws me closer to God.  I have realized lately that I desperately need God.  I desire to be closer to Him.  I want to find out what He desires of me (Micah 6:8) and do it well.  I love this journey.  It has been amazing.  I did something today that I didn't realize was so heavy. I forgave myself for some past decisions.  I was sitting in my classroom just soaking up some good worship time with God and just broke for the things I have been holding on to inside of me.  I guess I have been storing them up so I can take out the guilt and the bitterness and the brokeness for future pity parties.  It was so freeing.  To submit to God.  To surrender.  So tonight when lies from the past started to creep up on me I decided to go to scripture. 

Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. James 4: 7-8

The part that really stuck with me is to come near to God.  I just sat in silence and whispered over and over again lyrics from a Shane and Shane song. "Be near, oh God, be near, oh God of us, Your nearness is to us our good."  That promise that if I come to God, pray to God, worship God, seek out God, ask God, spend time with God, then He will draw near to me.  That is truth.  And likewise, if I resist the devil, the promise is that he will flee from me.  How do I resist the devil? I acknowledge his lies for what they are, lies.  Then I submit to God fully and just simply draw near to Him with scripture, worship, prayer. 

The freeing is amazing.  I am telling the truth when I say that as I was seeking out God I felt His presence.  My chest got lighter. There was a deep calming.  A unbelievable peace that truly passes understanding.  You see when truth is revealed and believed there is a serenity.  There is a joy.  There is a release.  There is truth, plain and simple.  Only God can do that. 

Submission at its Best

"Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." Ephesians 5:19-21

Oh sweet submission. Everyone loves the opportunity.  I was reading this passage this morning and I really like several things:

One: I love verse 19 because it really gives me an excuse to burst into random song whenever I feel like.  Life really can be a musical.  And now I have my backing.  So the next time you ask me what I am doing and I burst into song to answer you, don't give me that look. It is in the Bible.  What is really interesting is that it says to speak with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs.  All lyrics and words that seek after God, praise God, turn to God, lift up God's name, burden God and trust Him.  Pretty cool that we should be speaking to another in such a way.  Also the "sing and make music in your heart to the Lord" part is pretty awesome.  If there is always a song or constant beginnings of one in my heart that is specifically for God, where would there be room for lies, doubts, and fear???  Because God is not a God of any of those.  Kind of ties in with Proverbs 4:23.  I definately want my wellspring to be more life-giving.

Two: If I am speaking to others with everything that seeks, praises, turns to God and I am also beginning and continuing music in my heart that belongs to God then naturally I can always thank God. For something. Anything. Everything.  Even in those times where things seem horrible and cold.  I can still be thankful.  I know that practicing verse 19 daily allows me to commit to a Savior and thank Him daily as well.  It's not like everyday someone dies for your sins.  It happened once and the power of His blood should not go unnoticed.

Three: If I follow God's Word (His Word that is Living and Active to this very day) and make it a purpose (instead of a feeling because those are fleeting) to carry out 19 and 20 of Ephesians 5, then what more can I casually and freely do but surrender? To submit? To put someone else's needs above my own?  And not for something in return.  But because I have a desire to follow in my Master's footsteps and bring life and love to the people around me.

So Blessed

Just a quick post to say that I am blessed. Right now I have three crazy girls 8,11, and 11 that are searching downstairs for junk food to finish our movie/girl night.  We have danced to music, played in the dark outside, painted nails, played games and laughed. A lot.  The night is not over.  I still have to plan surprise antics to do when they are asleep (think shaving cream on the nose). I still have great talk time left with my former roomie Brit who is helping me with this girls night.  But right now I need to go downstairs and surprise scare the girls that are unsuspecting in the kitchen.  Again, I am so blessed! There is a God.  The One and Only God.  Thank You God for Your many blessings.

It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like Christmas...

I love Christmas music. All kinds. But my favorite is the rat pack with Judy Garland and Ella Fitzgerald thrown in for good measure. There is something about their voices combined with amazing piano and trumpet skills that sets the mood for Christmas for me.

In fact right now I am listening to some old soul sing "Its Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas" and I nod absentmindedly as I am wrapping presents. I realize that I have fallen into the trap of what Christmas should look like. It's that time of year when more people than you would think possible put God in a box. But this time it is colorfully wrapped and has an obnoxious (useless) shiny bow.

I am not saying that I am not guilty of the thought process. I am simply pondering in my delirious state of post-psycho shopping mind. Should we not be making a conscious effort 365 days of the year to remember the birth of our Savior? Should we not constantly be dropping in extra donations and blessings and sacrificing gifts for those less fortunate? Should we not constantly be holding hushed and reverent worship sessions where we take silent time out for a God that took the form of a man and walked this Earth, only to go through a gruesome sacrifice blamelessly and rise from the dead? Should we not be celebrating and treating everyday as if it were Christmas?

Sadly, we don't really put the two together anymore. It is more segregated into Christmas the holiday and the day Jesus was born. And the reaction I see in myself is humbling and shaming in itself. I don't need to pull from my rightgeous anger at ungrateful attitudes. I simply need to CONSTANTLY seek out the Lord with all my hearrt and soul and mind. I need to constantly find areas of my life I need to surrender so that I can be less and He can be more.

Single Blessings

So, it's a topic I try to not talk about a lot. For many different reasons. Mainly because it really does no good to talk about the things we don't have. Every now and then though I feel a tug on my heart and it reminds me.

I'm talking about being single. About being allowed the opportunity to accomplish things I could never accomplish for God if I had a spouse. But also the heartache that sometimes tries to penetrate from being alone.

If you are going to offer scripture or words that will remind me how blessed I am to be single, I appreciate it. I have heard it already. And I know you mean well, but no thanks. At the same time, I also don't need to hear about how God has someone special for me in the future and if you were single or a male you would have already asked me out. I think that is sweet and creepy at the same time and is just not necessary. I know all these things.

I'm simply sharing my thoughts. Because that is what a blog is created to be used for. Yes, I ended my sentence with 'for'.

Our school received some unsettling news today concerning one of our students. She decided to leave the school and a place of safety and love. Sometimes the burden of carrying that heartache is too great. And it is in these moments that I feel really alone.

I know most girls (myself included) over-fantasize what a relationship will look like. What her husband will be in the relationship and how fights will never happen and birds sing as soon as the alarm goes off. Dinner is never burned and the husband is always satisfied. This is not reality and I know that. I also have been able to be a witness to several couples who have shown a Godly relationship in their marriage. It is these examples that I cherish and cannot wait for in my marriage. One of these things is simply conversation.

I felt alone today because I wanted to share my heartache with my husband. It was an emptiness I cannot explain. I cannot explain how the ache was specifically for him either. It just was. It was not enough to tell a friend or a co-worker. It was a burden that I wanted to release to my husband just as I wanted hear about his day as well.

Some of you may think I am crazy. Maybe I am. All I know is that in those moments when I want to turn and talk to my spouse (who doesn't exist) I have learned to talk to God. At first I didn't understand it myself. I just started talking to God and let Him know that for some reason I was feeling this loneliness and ache. I asked Him if I could just talk to Him until His peace overcame me. From then on its been kind of our thing. I feel the ache, I give it to Him. Not only do I feel strongly connected to God, but I also know He is shaping me to be ready for the time that I might have an earthly husband.

It's really refreshing. Still hard. Still aches. But refreshing. In October I promised a year to God without seeking a relationship. It's already been interesting and harder than I thought in ways I didn't think about. But God is stretching me, teaching me and giving me true peace.

New Every Morning

His mercies are new every morning. Seriously. They really are. Kind of crazy when we take that for granted. I know I do. A lot. In my profession I really can't afford to keep taking it for granted. I need (desperately) His mercies to be new every morning. In fact, I often believe the verse should read that His mercies are new every second. Not that I am trying to change the Holy Bible...

Being a teacher can be exhausting. There are a lot of demands, a lot of hopes, a lot of idealistic expectations, a lot of people looking up to you to lead. I come home a lot of days with mixed feelings of frustration, hope, redemption and shock when it comes to my students. I used to always think, "Whew! Thank goodness His mercies are new every morning for THEM!"

However, I am starting to realize a few things. As I look back over my day I note some things that I am ashamed as a teacher that I committed.
1) I decided sleep was more important than time with God this morning.
2) I told a student to wait to talk to me while I finished an activity I didn't need until Friday.
3) I rolled my eyes at a student's comment.
4) The amount of unending smart comments that rolled through my head all day were ridiculous.
5) I told a student we would look at a video he wanted to show me at another time knowing that I was hoping he would forget.
6) I handled classroom management without prayer or petition most of the time and took matters into my own hands. (this NEVER works out right)
7) I got frustrated with a house parent and took it out on my students.

These might seem minor to you. But they are the building blocks of something bigger. Some days my list is shorter. Some days my list is longer. It is not my goal to keep up with the length of the list. It is my goal to ask for forgiveness. To ask for a way to be more like Christ. To ask for guidance and strength. I strive to remember that He gives new mercies every day. And I am soooo thankful for that.